Everybody Should Read This Book

Posted: 22nd May 2013 by Roy Goble in Book Reviews

Here’s a book that almost everybody I know should read.

Henri Nouwen was brilliant, of course. He gave a talk on fundraising and somebody had the good sense to publish it as A Spirituality of Fundraising.

And I think everybody should read it. Here’s why.

In his book To Sell is Human, Daniel Pink said that we are all in sales now.

I might add that we are all in fundraising now.

You don’t have to operate a non-profit organization to be in fundraising. In my mind, fundraising is encouraging people to use their wealth in a way that best impacts the world, their own spirituality, and the spirituality of those receiving the gift.

Looking at fundraising from that perspective means that all of us are fundraisers. We all influence how others use their wealth. Oh, you might not do so directly. But through our own decisions, actions, values and opinions, we shape those around us.

So if we’re going to be fundraisers in this way, don’t you think we should understand the importance of doing it right?

That’s where Nouwen’s book comes in. Here’s a book that looks at fundraising without being intimidated by wealth. Nor dismissive of wealth, corrupted by wealth, or lustful for wealth. Nouwen gets our heads screwed on straight about how to view people with wealth through a spiritual lens. And when we do that we put a proper perspective on their contribution to our work, ministry, church, non-profit group, school, etc.

Get the idea? Read the book.

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The Other Half of the Sky, Part II

Posted: 22nd May 2013 by Roy Goble in PathLight, The SOLD Project

I recently heard about a friend going through a very difficult divorce. She is married to a man who has done some despicable things and he doesn’t deserve her. It saddened me, and it once again made me think, “How can we get men to hold up half the sky?”

No, this isn’t a book review of the latest from Nicholas Kristof and his well known book about women holding up half the sky. It’s a follow up to a post from 2011 when I was in Thailand with The SOLD Project.

In that post I stated that we had to do more than empower women. Let’s not forget that men hold up the other half of the sky and many of them need help too.

I believe in empowering women. All the studies show that educated women creates prosperity, equality, fairness and openness in a society. I support organizations that focus on this. The SOLD Project and PathLight are two great examples.

But we cannot empower women and say our job is finished. Sometimes we create unexpected consequences.

Here’s an example. Saudi Arabia is one of the least progressive countries when it comes to women’s rights. But there are an increasing number of women who are educated, outspoken, and willful about their lives.

What has been an unexpected change? Divorce. It’s skyrocketing in Saudi Arabia. Perhaps the most traditionally Muslim nation in the world is seeing a giant rise in divorce statistics.

Now a lot of folks will point to this as a good thing. They will say that women are finally allowed out of downright dangerous marriages. I completely understand and am not trying to argue otherwise.

But let’s not forget the men who largely created those unhealthy marriages. They operate within their historical and cultural context and are showing an inability to adapt. The needs of women were addressed without doing much to change the behavior or expectations of the men.

That’s sad. It speaks to the weakness of efforts to reach, teach, and change the hearts of men.

I’m not trying to pick on Saudi Arabia here. Divorce rates in Saudi Arabia are clearly anecdotal to my point. I see the same phenomena expressed in a variety of ways, from fewer American men going to college (true since 1977) to minimalist efforts to provide therapy for men with sexual addictions.

Yes, women hold up half the sky. No argument from me on that point. But men still hold up the other half. And when men stop doing their part, it hurts everybody. Men have a different set of needs as society changes, and the methods being used to meet those needs is falling short.

Inspire a Teacher

Posted: 15th May 2013 by Roy Goble in Belize, PathLight

Have you got $10? If so, you can make a huge difference for a teacher in Belize.  Here’s how.

Belize is officially an English speaking country. But in large parts of the country — especially where PathLight works — English is a second language. It might be Spanish, Mopan Mayan, Ketchi Mayan, Belizean Kriol, or Garifuna. Helping those students excel in school takes a special effort.

We want to provide Belizean teachers with a highly acclaimed book that will help them structure lessons to engage both English and non-English speakers.

And get this. It’s only $10.

The aim is to find 250 people to help with this. That impacts 250 classes. Or about 7500 kids. Huge leverage, isn’t it?

So what do you say? You in? Just $10!  Click here and inspire a teacher!

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Through the Bible in 90-Days

Posted: 14th May 2013 by Roy Goble in Random Thoughts

Reading through the Bible in ninety days is one of the more time consuming spiritual challenges I’ve pursued. Taking on spiritual goals is not new for me. I’ve read the Bible in a year (several times), done liturgical prayers each day for a year, practiced seasons of fasting, sought extended times of solitude, done intensive studies, and taken on other such ambitions.

But nothing has taken as much time out of the day as reading through the entire Bible in 90-days. This goal takes time, at least 30-45 minutes a day. And you can’t fall behind or you’ll never catch up. There are no days off with this challenge. I read on days when I work, travel, play, relax, find myself on an airplane, feeling sick, go for long road trips, or am just so busy that reading seems like pure luxury.

The good news? I’m exactly on pace and halfway there as of today! Even better, I’m finding enjoyment in the process. It’s a challenge, but one that has rewards worthy of the effort.

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Twenty Five Books That Influenced My Life – #5

Posted: 13th May 2013 by Roy Goble in Book Reviews

Few books stand the test of time. But for over 125 years Adventures of Huckleberry Finn by Mark Twain has been able to entertain readers, irritate people, and force all of us to reflect on life. Why is that?


The entertaining part is the easiest to understand. Books about boyhood adventures have been popular for centuries. Twain was a master storyteller with one of the sharpest pens ever to put words on paper. His stories don’t just come alive; they are alive in our hearts, minds and souls.

It’s understandable, if regrettable, that Huckleberry should also still be irritating readers. It’s an unapologetic look at the 19th Century era South and written so well that the cultural racism can come across as “normal” if you choose to read it that way. Sadly, many people do, so the book becomes a lightening rod for debate.

But the book transcends the controversies because it can be read at a more meaningful level. That’s what makes us pause and reflect when you read a book like this. It captures an American spirit, a nation of unsurpassed promise, a culture that struggles through and finds right in the midst of wrong. This is a book that uncovers the seedier side of our nature as it makes us laugh and prompts our imagination.

That contradiction is what separates great literature from good writing. Mark Twain nails it in this book, and that’s why it is still relevant today.

But why does it make my list of 25 books that most influenced my life? Because it taught me values. It taught me the difference between right and wrong, between hate and compassion, between friendship and simply using other people. Those are values my parents, teachers and pastors all taught me. But to read it in a book of adventure cemented the ideals of goodness combined with taking risks. In many ways Huckleberry encourages non-comformity and independence alongside truth and justice.

Huckleberry is rightfully part of the fabric of the American consciousness. It’s themes of freedom, liberty and fairness are the best aims of our nation. And it develops those ideals alongside all the flaws and faults of our nation. Achieving this, while also telling an incredibly entertaining story, makes this one of the great American novels.

And it’s why Adventures of Huckleberry Finn is on my list of 25 books that most influenced my life.

Want to read more of my top 25? Here is the list thus far:

Only the Paranoid Survive – #6
The Spy Who Came In From The Cold – #7
The Hitchhiker’s Guide to the Galaxy – #8
Truman – #9
Shantaram – #10
The Maltese Falcon – #11
The Shadow of the Wind – #12
Survey of the New Testatement – #13
Calvin & Hobbes – #14
Celtic Daily Prayer – #15
Managing the Nonprofit Organization – #16
A Wrinkle in Time – #17
The Practice of the Presence of God – #18
Catch 22 – #19
The Tortilla Curtain – #20
The Kingdom of God is a Party – #21
Earthkeeping – #22
Reviving Ophelia – #23
The Grapes of Wrath – #24
Peanuts – #25

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Give Your Car!

Posted: 9th May 2013 by Roy Goble in Belize, PathLight

I have a request. Do you have a car or truck you’ve thought about donating? PathLight needs one urgently for the programs in Belize.

Last month one of our volunteer teachers, Dwight, was driving our Toyota and was hit broadside by a bus. Thankfully the student in the passenger side is fine, but Dwight had broken bones and a big scare. You can see in the picture how the bus hit flush with where he was sitting. Dwight flew back to the States for medical treatment and after a few surgeries will be okay.

But PathLight is out one vehicle. I figure with a blog called Junkyard Wisdom it pays to ask if anybody has a car they can donate! We could use a reliable truck, SUV, or car. Even if the car isn’t ideal for Belize, we could sell it and buy one that is ideal.

So do you have something to donate? Sure would appreciate it!

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Rosie Red is Here!

Posted: 8th May 2013 by Roy Goble in Wine Reviews

It’s all come together. We had the naming competition, we designed the label, we even paid somebody a licensing fee for the Rosie the Riveter design. Simultaneously the wine was being blended, aged, and bottled. And then the call came: it’s ready!

Bottle #1 of Rosie Red!

Bottle #1 of Rosie Red!

A drive to Napa on Monday turned into a battle with an odd rainstorm, but otherwise all went well as I picked up a barrels worth of 2011 Rosie Red Napa Valley Zinfandel!

Thank you to Tofanelli Vineyards for making such a superb wine. Thanks to Gold Coast Labels for designing something so fun. And thanks to my Mom for letting me mention her on the back cover even though she’s not allowed to drink wine! It was a team effort, as usual, and it was a lot of fun.

I’m looking forward to seeing how the wine evolves. My first taste made me realize just how young the wine is. It actually tastes like a barrel tasting at this point. But past experience has taught me to be patient. Give it till the end of the year — then it’s going to be great.

Hope to serve you some in the months and years ahead!

Where it all starts - the vineyard where Rosie Red was born.

Where it all starts – the vineyard where Rosie Red was born.

Amazing how unromantic a barrel of wine looks in packaging!

Amazing how unromantic a barrel of wine looks in packaging!

Summer was suppose to be here. Where did this rain come from?

Summer was suppose to be here. Where did this rain come from?

Just in case you forget where you are.

Just in case you forget where you are.

Bottle #1 of Rosie Red!

Bottle #1 of Rosie Red!

Mrs. Goble Goes to Washington

Posted: 26th April 2013 by Roy Goble in Family

My Mom turns 89 years young today! It’s great to see how she continues to ask questions, learn, laugh, and seek out the fun things of life. She’s slowed down, of course. But she still has purpose, she still has joy. What a blessing.

Last Sunday D’Aun and I took Mom to Washington DC for a four day visit. It was an amazing journey filled with wonderful experiences. At least one of Mom’s forefathers signed the Declaration of Independence, she had another who was an officer in the War of 1812, and she had countless family members who fought in the Civil War. Her own great grandfather was a victim at Shiloh.

Mom and D'Aun near the Capitol

Mom and D’Aun near the Capitol

My point is that Mom is as American as one can be for a family heritage that arrived in the mid 1600′s. So a visit to Washington DC had special meaning.

Here is a quick list of things that we did together:

- We took Virgin American Flight #1 from San Francisco to Reagan National. It was a treat for my Mom to sit in first class.

- We stayed at The Jefferson Hotel, a few blocks from the White House. It was the military headquarters for Great Britain during World War II and had classic English style. Friend and former colleague Philip Wood is the Managing Director of the hotel, and it was fun to reconnect with him. His dapper English style charmed Mom immensely.

- We dined at a variety of places: Logan Tavern, Old Ebbitt Grill, The Hamilton, Le Pain (Alexandria), and others.

- A congressional aide gave us a tour of the Capitol, we walked through the National Botanical Garden, we admired the FDR Memorial, and we perused the Martin Luther King Jr. Memorial.

- A main purpose of the trip was visiting the World War II Memorial. Mom often thought of December 7, 1941. She was a senior in High School then. She remembers going to school on the 8th and seeing the look of concern on the boys faces. They were all drafted and some did not come home. My Dad was stationed in the South Pacific, and Mom was a Rosie on the home front making tubes for airplanes. So World War II was a significant part of her life. It was great for the Ranger to honor her with a private tour. Despite the cold, Mom loved the experience.

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Mom with me at the World War II Memorial


- Since I was with two Goble women, we had to go shopping. A visit to Macy’s supplemented several gift shops!

- Perhaps the biggest surprise happened on our visit to Mt. Vernon. Our guide Ismail (who is highly recommended) arranged for John Marshall to give us a tour. John is the head of Guest Relations at Mt. Vernon and he treated Mom like royalty. The highlight was when Mom was given the honor of entering the crypt where George Washington is buried so she could set a wreath by his grave. The rest of the tourists were abuzz, asking, “Who is this woman?” For a few moments Mom was a celebrity! Here’s a link to the video.

- At various times we drove through Alexandria, around the Pentagon, through Georgetown, over to the Iwo Jima statue, through Embassy Row, and past Georgetown University.

- We visited the American History Museum and saw the Star Spangled Banner flag, the National Archives to see the Declaration of Independence and the Constitution, and the Library of Congress to see the Gutenberg Bible.

- Another surprise was a visit to Hillwood Estate, a stunning home filled with priceless treasures. The surrounding gardens were gorgeous.

With Congressman Swalwell

With Congressman Swalwell


- Mom also had the chance to meet two Congressmen and tell her stories. It was fun to meet our new representative, Eric Swalwell, and learn about many common friends (for instance, his office manager is a Westmont alum).

Throughout it all we laughed, told stories, and remembered how great it is to live in this country. We joked about planning two meals ahead, bumped Mom’s wheelchair across dozens of cobblestone roads, and met amazingly gracious people.

Thank you, Mom, for being an incredible trooper at 89-years young. You kept pace with it all and were always in great spirits. It’s an honor to call you Mom. Happy Birthday!

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